The Limits of Language and What Cannot Be Said

The limits of your Language are the limits of your Reality!

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Created: 2025-12-15Updated: 2025-12-15

There is a peculiar madness that grips certain kinds of minds. They stand at the edge of something vast, call it truth, call it reality, call it God and they feel compelled to capture it, to pin it down in words, to make it speakable. Mystics write treatises. Poets strain against syntax. Philosophers build architectures of concepts, each one supposedly bringing us closer to the unsayable thing itself.

Wittgenstein stood at this edge and had a different realization: The edge itself is the truth. The boundary between what can be said and what cannot be said isn't a frustrating limitation to be overcome. It's the most important discovery philosophy can make.

The Tractatus makes a claim that sounds paradoxical: the most important things in life cannot be put into words. And yet here is Wittgenstein, putting this very claim into words. Is this contradiction? Confusion? No. It's something far more interesting.

The Cartographer's Impossibility

In 1962, the statistician George Box wrote:

All models are wrong, but some are useful.

He was talking about statistical models, but he'd captured something deeper. Every map is, strictly speaking, false. It leaves out infinite detail. The map of Paris doesn't include the smell of bread from the boulangerie on Rue Montorgueil, doesn't capture the exact shade of gray in the Seine on a November morning, doesn't represent the feeling of cobblestones under your feet.

But there's a more fundamental impossibility hidden here. Imagine trying to make a perfect map, one that includes everything. Every atom, every quantum fluctuation, every possible detail. You'd need a map the same size as the territory. And even then, you'd face a problem: the map would need to include itself. Because the map is part of the territory now. So you'd need a map of the map, and a map of that map, infinite regress, never complete.

This isn't a practical limitation. It's a logical impossibility. The map cannot fully represent the territory because the map is in the territory, and any complete representation would have to include its own representation, which would have to include its own representation, forever.

Language faces the same impossibility when it tries to speak about itself. When language tries to describe its own limits, it's like a hand trying to grasp itself. The hand can grasp other things: a cup, a pen, another person's hand. But it cannot stand outside itself and grasp itself as an object.

Wittgenstein saw this with crystalline clarity. Language can picture facts about the world. It can say "The cat is on the mat" or "Mars has two moons" or "Water boils at 100°C." These are propositions with truth-conditions; they picture possible states of affairs.

But language cannot picture its own structure. It cannot stand outside itself and say what makes picturing possible. When you try to say "Propositions must have logical form to mean anything," you're trying to picture the structure of picturing itself. And that's where language breaks down, because the task is logically impossible.

The Eye That Cannot See Itself

In the 17th century, René Descartes sat in a room with a stove and decided to doubt everything. He doubted his senses, doubted the external world, doubted mathematics. But there was one thing he couldn't doubt: that he was doubting. "Cogito, ergo sum": I think, therefore I am. The thinking itself was undoubtable because it was the very act of doubting.

But here's what Descartes didn't see: he couldn't observe this thinking directly. He couldn't make it an object of thought without performing another act of thinking, which also couldn't be observed directly. The eye that sees everything cannot see itself seeing. The light that illuminates all objects cannot illuminate itself as an object.

Wittgenstein extends this insight to language. The logical form of language cannot itself be said. It can only be shown in the propositions we use.

Think about it: When you say "The cat is on the mat," the sentence shows its logical form. It shows that "cat" and "mat" are names (they refer to objects), that "is on" expresses a relation, that the whole sentence pictures a possible state of affairs. But you cannot say what this form is without using language that already presupposes the same form.

It's like trying to explain the rules of chess using only legal chess moves. The moves show the rules, you watch how pieces move, and you infer the rules. But you cannot say the rules using chess moves themselves. You need to step outside the game, use ordinary language. But with language itself, there is no "outside" to step into. Language is the only game in town.

The Musician's Secret

In the 1950s, the jazz pianist Bill Evans was asked to explain his approach to improvisation. He said something profound: "The process of learning music is very similar to the process of learning a language. When you finally arrive at the point where you can express yourself, you're not thinking about grammar or vocabulary. The language comes through you."

Evans understood something that most philosophy misses: there are two kinds of knowledge. There's the knowledge you can articulate: "the ii-V-I progression moves from the supertonic to the dominant to the tonic." And there's the knowledge embedded in practice: your fingers finding the right keys without conscious thought, your ear knowing when a note is right even before you can explain why.

Wittgenstein distinguishes between saying and showing in exactly this way. Some things can be put into propositions, stated explicitly, said. These are facts about the world. But other things can only show themselves in practice, in how you use language, in how you live.

Take logic itself. You can state a logical rule: "If P implies Q, and P is true, then Q is true." That's modus ponens, written out explicitly. But why is this rule valid? Try to give a logical argument for why logic works, and you'll find yourself using logic to justify logic, circular, futile.

The validity of logic cannot be said. It shows itself in every meaningful proposition we utter. When you say anything at all: "The coffee is hot," "2+2=4," "I'll meet you tomorrow", you're already operating within logical space, already presupposing the rules of inference. Logic isn't a theory we believe; it's the structure we inhabit whenever we mean anything.

Bill Evans didn't think about grammar while improvising. The grammar showed itself in his playing. Similarly, we don't consciously apply logical rules while thinking. Logic shows itself in coherent thought.

The Architect's Foundation

In 1173, construction began on a bell tower in Pisa. The architects didn't know that the ground beneath was unstable, a mixture of clay, fine sand, and shells. Within five years, the tower began to lean. They tried to compensate, building the upper floors at an angle, but it kept tilting. For eight centuries, engineers have stabilized, counterweighted, and adjusted it. The tower stands, but only through constant intervention.

The problem wasn't the tower. It was the foundation, the ground itself was unsuitable, and no amount of clever engineering could fix that. You can't build stability on unstable ground.

For centuries, philosophers tried to build secure foundations for knowledge. Descartes: clear and distinct ideas. Locke: sense impressions. Kant: categories of understanding. Each system tried to ground certainty in something indubitable, some bedrock upon which all else could rest.

Wittgenstein saw that this entire project was doomed, not because the foundations weren't good enough, but because the very idea of "grounding" is confused. At some point, justification comes to an end. You cannot justify logic with more logic, cannot ground language in something more fundamental than language, cannot step outside thought to validate thought itself.

This isn't a failure. It's a recognition of how meaning works. Language doesn't need foundations outside itself. It doesn't hover in mid-air, unsupported. Rather, language is groundless in the sense that it is itself the ground, the space in which meaning, truth, and justification operate.

When you ask "But how do we know language connects to reality?" you're already using language, already presupposing the connection you're asking about. It's like asking "How do we know space exists?" while standing in space. The question assumes what it's questioning.

This is why Wittgenstein says certain things can only be shown, not said. The connection between language and reality cannot be stated as a proposition. It shows itself in the fact that we successfully communicate, that our sentences have meaning, that language works.

The Physician's Diagnosis

In the 19th century, doctors noticed something strange: women in urban hospitals died of childbed fever at much higher rates than women who gave birth at home. The accepted theory blamed "bad air" or the women's constitution. Then a Hungarian doctor named Ignaz Semmelweis made an observation: the mortality rate was highest in the ward where medical students trained. These students came directly from autopsy rooms to deliver babies, without washing their hands.

Semmelweis proposed a radical solution: hand-washing with chlorinated lime solution. The mortality rate plummeted from 18% to 2%. But the medical establishment rejected his theory. Why? Because they couldn't see the mechanism. Germ theory didn't exist yet. They couldn't accept that invisible particles on hands could cause disease. Without a visible mechanism, Semmelweis's success looked like coincidence.

He died in an asylum, his discovery ignored. Only decades later, when Pasteur and Koch developed germ theory, did hand-washing make "sense." The practice worked before it could be explained. The truth showed itself in results before it could be said in theory.

This is the pattern Wittgenstein identifies in the Tractatus. Many philosophers rejected his conclusions because they seemed to lead nowhere. "If we can't talk about logic, ethics, or meaning, what's left for philosophy to do?" But that's the wrong reaction. Wittgenstein isn't saying these things don't exist or don't matter. He's saying they show themselves in practice, not in theory.

Ethics doesn't need a philosophical foundation. It shows itself in how you live, in whether you can look in the mirror, in the kind of person you become, in your responses to suffering and joy. You don't need a theory of ethics to be ethical, just as Semmelweis didn't need germ theory to save lives. The practice contains the wisdom; the theory comes later, if at all, and often misleads more than it helps.

The Mathematician's Proof

In 1931, Kurt Gödel proved something that shattered a dream. Mathematicians had hoped to formalize all of mathematics, to reduce it to a complete system of axioms and rules from which every truth could be derived. Gödel showed this was impossible. Any system powerful enough to express arithmetic will contain true statements that cannot be proven within that system.

This wasn't a limitation of particular systems. It was a fundamental truth about formal systems themselves. Mathematics cannot be completely captured by any formal system. There will always be truths that transcend the system, that can be seen but not proven from within.

Wittgenstein's insight about the limits of language has a similar structure. Logic cannot be fully expressed within language. Any attempt to state the rules of logic uses those very rules. Any attempt to describe what makes propositions meaningful must itself be a proposition, presupposing what it's trying to explain.

But here's the crucial move: this doesn't mean logic is mysterious or unknowable. It means logic is shown in every meaningful utterance. You don't need to state the laws of logic explicitly because they manifest in correct reasoning. The structure is visible in the use.

Gödel's incompleteness theorems didn't make mathematics impossible. Mathematics continues, fruitfully. The theorems just showed that mathematics is richer than any formal system can capture. Similarly, Wittgenstein's limits don't make language impossible. Language continues, meaningfully. The limits just show that language is richer than any theory of language can capture.

The Painter's Canvas

In 1910, Wassily Kandinsky painted what's often considered the first purely abstract painting. No recognizable objects, no representation of reality, just colors, shapes, lines. Critics were baffled. "What does it mean?" they demanded. "What is it about?"

Kandinsky's answer: it's not about anything. It doesn't represent. It is. The painting doesn't picture a state of affairs in the world. It creates an aesthetic experience directly, without mediation through representation.

This is exactly what Wittgenstein means when he says certain things cannot be said but only shown. A representational painting can be described in language. "It shows a woman in blue, seated, looking left." The description corresponds to what's in the painting. But Kandinsky's abstractions resist verbal description. You can say "There's a red circle and a black triangle," but you haven't captured what makes the painting meaningful. The meaning shows itself in the experience of seeing it; it cannot be translated into propositions.

Now extend this insight. Ethics is like abstract art. You cannot say what makes murder wrong in the way you can say what makes murder illegal. There's no fact about the world corresponding to "wrongness." But wrongness shows itself in your revulsion, in your inability to look away from suffering, in the kind of person you'd have to become to commit such an act.

Mathematics too. You can state theorems but the necessity of mathematical truth, the sense that 2+2 must equal 4, cannot be reduced to facts about the world. Mathematical necessity shows itself in proof, in the experience of following logical steps and seeing that the conclusion is inescapable.

Beauty, meaning, value, all of these transcend factual description. They show themselves in experience but resist propositional capture.

The Prisoner's Paradox

In ancient Greece, there was a paradox about the Cretan philosopher Epimenides, who said: "All Cretans are liars." If he's telling the truth, then he's lying. If he's lying, then he's telling the truth. The sentence twists back on itself, trying to grasp its own truth-value, and collapses into paradox.

This is what happens when language tries to talk about itself. The Tractatus itself faces this problem. Wittgenstein uses language to describe the limits of language. He states propositions about what can and cannot be stated. Isn't this self-refuting?

He knows it is. Near the end of the book, he writes: "My propositions serve as elucidations in the following way: anyone who understands me eventually recognizes them as nonsensical, when he has used them to climb beyond them. (He must, so to speak, throw away the ladder after he has climbed up it.)"

This is the most profound moment in the Tractatus. Wittgenstein isn't claiming to have stated truths about language. He's using language to show you something about language that cannot, strictly speaking, be said. The propositions are like fingers pointing at the moon, useful for directing your gaze, but not to be confused with the moon itself.

Once you've seen what the Tractatus points toward you realize the book itself violates those limits. It tries to say what can only be shown. But this violation is necessary to bring you to understanding. It's like using a thorn to remove a thorn, then throwing both away.

The Theologian's Silence

In the 13th century, Thomas Aquinas wrote millions of words about God, arguments for God's existence, descriptions of God's attributes, analyses of how God relates to creation. Then, near the end of his life, he had a mystical experience during Mass. Afterward, he stopped writing entirely. When urged to continue his great work, the Summa Theologica, he replied: "I cannot, because all that I have written seems like straw to me."

What happened? Did Aquinas realize his theology was false? No. He realized it was inadequate. The reality of God, encountered directly in mystical experience, couldn't be captured in propositions. All his careful arguments and distinctions were straw compared to the living reality.

This is Wittgenstein's insight about the mystical. The mystical isn't a fuzzy, emotional realm opposed to clear thinking. It's everything that transcends propositional language, everything that shows itself but cannot be said.

God, if God exists, cannot be an object in the world, a being among beings. Because anything that can be said can only describe facts, states of affairs, possible configurations of objects. If God were just another object, you could picture God's existence as a fact: "God is in location X" or "God has property Y." But this would reduce God to something finite, something within the logical space of facts.

The mystical God transcends this entirely. God isn't a fact to be asserted but a reality to be encountered, showing itself in experience but resisting propositional capture. This is why Aquinas fell silent. Not because he had nothing more to say, but because saying was the wrong mode for what he'd experienced.

Similarly with the meaning of life. You cannot state as a proposition: "The meaning of life is X." Because meaning isn't a fact about the world. It's not in the world as one more object or relation. Rather, meaning shows itself in how the world strikes you, in whether you see it as a gift or a burden, in the quality of your engagement with existence.

Wittgenstein writes: "Not how the world is, is the mystical, but that it is." The brute fact of existence cannot be explained. Any explanation would assume existence, would operate within the space of existing things. The existence of existence itself stands outside all possible explanations. It can only be wondered at, experienced with awe or gratitude or terror, but never captured in a proposition.

The Scientist's Humility

In 1927, Werner Heisenberg published his uncertainty principle. Many people misunderstood it as a limitation of measurement technology, if only we had better instruments, we could measure both position and momentum precisely. But Heisenberg meant something deeper: the uncertainty is intrinsic to reality itself. Particles don't have both definite position and definite momentum simultaneously. It's not that we can't measure them; it's that they don't exist to be measured.

This disturbed many physicists, including Einstein. It seemed to say that reality itself was incomplete, that there were questions without answers. But gradually, physics absorbed the insight. The uncertainty principle isn't a flaw in the theory; it's a feature of quantum reality. Some questions are ill-formed. Asking "What is the exact position and momentum of this electron?" is like asking "What does blue taste like?", the question assumes something that isn't there.

Wittgenstein's limits on language work similarly. When he says certain things cannot be said, he's not pointing to a deficiency in our current language that future development might overcome. He's pointing to the logical boundaries of what any language could say, given what language is, a system for picturing facts.

Some questions that seem profound are actually ill-formed. "What existed before the Big Bang?" assumes time exists independently of the universe, but time itself began with the Big Bang. "What is consciousness made of?" assumes consciousness is a substance or structure, but it might be a process or relation. "Why is there something rather than nothing?" assumes that existence requires an explanation, but explanation itself presupposes existence.

These aren't deep mysteries awaiting solutions. They're confusions arising from pushing language beyond its limits. Recognizing this isn't intellectual defeat; it's clarity about what kinds of questions can be answered and which ones need to be dissolved.

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The Picture Theory of Meaning